CJ Joseph


I am a queer, kinky, non-monogamous sex coach and mentor. My focus is on taking you beyond shame and into confidence about expressing your authentic sexual self. I am certified as a life coach through Lumia and as a sex coach through the Sexual Health Alliance. I offer coaching packages to take you on a journey of discovering what you want and how to get there. 

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200+ hours

How I can help you

Here’s what I want you to know: You are worthy of your desires. Don’t let shame tell you otherwise. I became a coach and mentor because of my struggles and explorations, all of which led me to where I am today. We are ALL deserving of amazing, connected sexual experiences where we can be authentically ourselves. Sometimes we need to be vulnerable and share who we are with our current partners so they can opt in to our needs. Or maybe we need to know that there is someone out there who will match our desires, our kinks, our needs. You might think you’re some kind of freaky person all alone in the world, but you are NOT! There’s always someone out there who wants to be with you. If you’re ready to embark on this journey, I’m here for you. I can bring my personal journey to bear when appropriate but the real work is your own personal journey. Getting down to what it is that YOU want and building your confidence and conviction in that and moving towards it. I want to be here with you on that journey: to be your lighthouse; your confidant; your brainstorming partner; your role player; your partner in inquiry; your person to help hold you accountable to yourself. Let’s get busy getting you the things you want because we all deserve fun, pleasure and hot as hell sex!

Typical first meeting

I require a free 30 minute discovery call where we can see if we are a fit.

What I specialize in

Walking away from shame and becoming the authentic sexual being you want to be. Kink, BDSM, non-monogamy, queer expression.


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